I’ve been postponing writing about this for a little while although I’ve wanted to share it with you. This is a personal story that involves people who might read this blog, so I hope I don’t offend anyone, but this is my story and I hope maybe this can help others if they are ever in a similar situation.
Never ignore your intuition. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Stop ignoring your internal red or orange flags.
Do not feel like a bitch for hurting someone. First and foremost, you are your utmost priority. Keep yourself happy and do what is right for yourself.
Do not worry about what others will think. They will understand eventually. And if they never understand or accept it, then they need to be dumped as a friend too.
Do not feel ashamed and don’t feel like you have failed.
Do not feel like you’re alone. You have a support system, and they are there for you no matter what.
Sometimes (most of the times, in my experience) it is much better for all parties involved to cut your losses and move on. There is someone out there for you.
What have your growing pains been?